Monday, February 10, 2014


We are not perfect. We all commit mistakes. If someone did bad things to you but eventually asking forgiveness., then forgive! There's no reason for you not to forgive..., even if you're still hurt and wounded.. (; free yourself from the bandage of hatred...

Remember what the bible says: "if your brother sin against you", forgive him not seven times, but seventy-seven times...

Forgiveness is the manifestation of love. If you don't forgive, you don't love...


Battle is about fighting for something or someone. It is by words or by physical, by emotion or mental...

There are different kinds of battle, so we all must be aware. If we fight for something out of our principles and conscience, it will not worth it. If you fight for something just for being dogmatic, it will make no sense. Fight for something valuable, or else don't fight at all for the sake of peace....


One of the most important things in life is the word "Integrity". We should walk what we talk. If we say no, it should be no. And if we say yes, it should be yes. Once you are committed for something or you made promises to someone, make sure that it will be fulfilled without any justification.

People will gauge you accordingly. If you fail once, surely your reputation will be destroyed.


We all know that "Action is better than words" right? You can't prove how much you love a person until you do something for him/her. Love must be transparent., it should be faithful and honest.

Action is the equivalent of True Love and trust is always the foundation. If you can cheat a person you love, it will never be loved anymore and definitely destroy the real essence of love. Can you love someone and yet still cheat on them?, the answer? NO! Cheating ruins relationship.

"I love you" sweet, eh? Lol... so let's learn how to value the real meaning of that sacred words.

We must learn how to become independent. If the problems come for whatever reasons, we are able to stand against them. We must build our foundation through rock (GOD) with hope., and when the storms come, surely we will not be shaken.

We should stand against every trial, for this will give us the courage and audacity to face our own battle.


Sometimes we don't really realize our own value. We don't give enough much attention on what we have and just always ignore our special ability. We always seek for help because we limit our capacity. We sometimes don't push ourselves into a higher level and explore for something beneficial.

Don't you even realize that you can be a source of help toward other people?, and your talents, skills and abilities can give others inspiration?

You are amazing! and most of all, YOU ARE IMPORTANT! you can be a helping hand for other people. Whether it is emotion, moral, skill, ability etc...


Happiness comes from the greek word "chara" which means something that might bring about the emotion happy.

There's no place for happiness, it's a choice! Being rich, beautiful and professional cannot guarantee happiness. We must learn to appreciate what we have, small or big things. We should also be thankful for everything. Learn to accept the reality and value what life brings you in order to become happy. Always remember, LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL! enjoy, have fun... Bye Sadness, and Hello HAPPINESS!

There's power inside our mind, so being optimistic is an advantage. Intelligent people are those who are wounded, those who are experiencing difficulties and yet they look forward and push their goal towards their dreams. All our desires can be achieved based on our mindset,. so don't let your mind control by all negative means.

We fail sometimes, but it doesn't mean that we will always fail. if you fail, don't worry! that's normal... failure is not an option, we must learn how to handle our situations through the power of positive mind. Fly High!, Dream Big... be optimistic instead...



You don't need put yourself into a restless situation. You can help without attachment and expecting returns from other people as a compensation for your deeds. You can even care for them, why not? but never expect anything... "Help then Forget" so you will not get hurt.

Always put in mind that people have different attitudes and characters. Expecting too much will definitely give you disappointment and possible lead you to revenge.

Caring is about giving what you have,.. it's love! A love that's not conditional.

Sunday, February 9, 2014


There are things that we can't explain and problems that we can't expose. We laugh , jokes and pretending that we're fine and yet sometimes there's a hidden pain beyond our situation. Life is not always happy as we thought, sometimes it's full of pain. As we grow old we walk the path of maturity where random situations happen. 

As we live and trying to achieve what we want or and by living even into a simplicity, we must understand that life has a natural flow, and the unpredictable things or situations are possible to happen.

When we are alone or feeling depress, sad and lonely... always remember that in every problem there's a way out. If you heart is full of emptiness, sorrow and pain, just cry out and without even saying a single word you will find yourself free from all the burdens carried of the past.

Wednesday, January 8, 2014


Love is spontaneous and unintentional. We love unexpectedly or without any underlying plan. Love is mysterious and untimely inbound. One thing is for sure; we don't have the power and ability to control or dictate our hearts.

In my kind opinion, love is one of the most important elements to develop our personality. When we love, the level of our being is totally rising. We experience the extraordinary feeling that gives us joy that we cannot explain. The power of love is really amazing.


Love is a kind of feeling that you cannot even match any emotions. It provides a real joy to the heart of one who loves. We must be careful when we love. We must put in order and make it limited so we do not get tired or have trouble later.

Often times, people who we love are the reason why we hurt. They are able to hurt us because they know we love them so much. We should put a boundary when we loved, so we will not be abused.


Life is a big puzzle, perhaps a mystery. We often do not understand the situation and trend of life. But there is a REAL truth, LIFE IS TOO SHORT!

Being lonely is a choice, same thing as being happy. So we should be brave, be strong.... and LIVE A HAPPY LIFE :)



We only live once, so we should give ourselves the dignity and importance. We must not insist ourselves for those who do not appreciate our value. It's important to be happy, because we cannot return to the time passed.

Why we urge ourselves to those who are not with us? Walk alone if necessary, or walk among those who truly appreciate you.


True!, it is very hard to forget someone who appreciated us completely. The person who gave us hope, courage and confidence. It is hard to find and rarely come with the chance someone will appreciate us too much. So when the opportunity comes, we must also learn to appreciate such things.

When something is lost to us, then we only see its importance. So while there is time and someone who loves us completely, we should keep it and we don't regret later.


Is it really hard to forget the past and the person you loved so much? There are those who can not forget and always just returning to the past. There's nothing wrong with love, but there should also limits. It is not good that we always torturing ourselves because we experienced bitterness. We should forget the bad things and face the new challenges of life. Love again, and live happily in the arms of a person who can really appreciate and accept our flaws.

Love is not hurting and not punitive. therefore arise from failure and go straight to the next chapter of your life.




It is very hard to accept that the person we loved the most is the one who causes us pain. Life is very playful sometimes, we should never expect a return from anyone else. Nevertheless, we must remember that there's still someone who will love and appreciate us.

Regardless of the past, more importantly is to forgive and look for brighter tomorrow. Everything has a purpose and a good plan so you should not go back to the pain of the past. Live a happy and peaceful.




Tuesday, January 7, 2014


Whatever a person's past, good or bad does not matter. Will not be able to do all good things for the people we love? The best thing we can do is to show them how important they are.

Love does not look at the past, and not measured in experience. Whether you're first or last, love must be intact and remained for the person you love.


It is true that happiness is not only found in material things but by the true love that we can get or see to the people who matter to us. Often, we are thirsty for love and we are looking too deep attention. The words uttered can not be called perfect love because you have to feel the evidence. True love has a corresponding appreciation, respect and giving proper attention.

So if someone tells you as I love you, he must first prove: no conditions and no complaints.